Change Is Not Fun

I am not one to easily welcome change. In fact, I think I detest it. When my eldest brother got married, I went through a hard time getting adjusted to him leaving. Surprisingly, when my sister got married in 2010, I was very sad for one or two days, but then I was ok with it. I knew the time was right and my heart would heal. However, there are some things in life that take time to heal. They could be good things or they could be bad things. One of the most frustrating things about my life, is that I am reluctant when I hear of new plans, while others seem to grab life by the horns. I don't want my life to change to fast. I hate giving up things that bring me so much joy. Does anyone else feel the same way?